Being Yourself Natural Horsemanship Horse Program for ADD ADHD and Autistic Kids Danielle Herb Drop Your Reins

Today was interesting on our Master Mind call as we all were sharing. It is without fail that something happens either on the call or in the hours following and today was surely one that I want to share with you the message I received.

Danielle Herb has been sick recently and in tremendous pain. I took her to the emergency room to have her looked at and make sure there was not something wrong that needed to be operated on or tended to with western medicine.

Many illnesses manifest by our thoughts or actions and until they themselves are changes the illness is still there. Traditional medicine will only mask the symptoms that are surfacing.

Danielle has had times in her life that had a similar theme, with one being when she was thought to be an ADHD kid.

When Danielle was 5 years old she was thought to have ADHD so by the persistent pressure from teachers, friends and family, I took my little girl to the doctor to have the outward manifestation diagnosed. They labeled her all right and then wanted me to begin medicating her. She was labeled as if there was something wrong with her but that did not FEEL right to me.

I began a quest to find what Danielle needed.

When something does not FEEL right, I begin listening to my intuition and asking question to seek the deeper meaning of the illness.

As a parent I have found that I do not have the answers and nor does anyone else. Danielle knows what she needs and what I try to do is seek to ask and understand.

Years ago when I assisted an entire community’s healing after a teen had shot and killed a teacher on the last day of school, a fellow coach and myself developed a system for healing called ALL.

A sk: Ask to get a deeper understanding

L isten: Listen for the answers without judgement. Be present.

L earn: Learn what is the next step

Seeking to Understand

Using this system helps me to see to understand and open my awareness for what I can learn. It helps me to see how to help Danielle heal and supply her with those things.

Need to BE Like Everyone Else

Being a teen today is not easy and especially if you are a very consciously awake and aware 16 year old like Danielle. She is very misunderstood by her peers and hard for her to fit in. She is more knowing and spiritually awake than most adults and she finds it lonely within her age group.

Recently as she is healing herself and asking for guidance to finding what her body and mind needs, her friends keep applying the same type of pressures we felt when she was a young child. It feels like a underlying pressure to conform and just do what others find as the easiest path to getting better.

Standing in Two Worlds

Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people?

I have.

You may have somethings in common with the people in your life, perhaps horses or you are the same age, but you just feel so misunderstood when it comes to the way you live and the fundamental truths that you live by, that you feel so alone. You might begin to want to be like the rest of the people because you it feels lonely until others begin to open up and become more connected to you and your world. People will either begin to resonate with you or they will fall away.

Holding the Space for Others

Danielle was expressing that she was tired and it felt so lonely on our call today. It was hard for her to be pressured all the time by her friends to do what they do to heal, which is go to the doctor and do what the doctors say.

It takes a special person to stand strong and hold the space for others to GROW and Danielle is doing just that. .

Danielle is just that special person and her friends will thank her someday when they realize the sacrifices she has made to be a leader ushering in new levels of awareness.

She is beautiful and shares her love and joy with others so freely.

Watch this video and embrace what it takes to be different. Sometime it takes standing out in a crowd, BEING yourself for a long time. It might get you plenty of stares and people snickering at you, but look what happens in the end when you are coming from your heart and sharing your light.